CNN news said British people's ideas about marriage has changed recently. They come to think that marriage isn't necessary any more because of high rate of divorce and much about of troubles concerning about marriage. It seems that people don't think marriage as a proof of love. They tend to think that they take it more flexible to love somebody without marriage. In this article, I'll discuss whther a marriage is necessary or not.
I think marriage is nescessary for the following reasons.
Firstly, when women give birth a child, it's easier to detect the origin of the child if women was married. Conversely, without marriage, some children might have troubles to know his or her origin of the birth if parents are irresponsible. That's a problem because childeren feel uneasy if they don't know who are their parents. Also, it has a influence on children's life because children have to go to orphan school if they don't know their parents and have noone who take care of them. Therefore, marriage is necessary to take responsible of children.
Secondly, couples can share the memory of marriage celemony and they can recognize to live toghther from now on. In that sense, marriage is good idea because when marriage, people can perceive that they have to cooperate each other, which makes new kindness to the partner. Though the celemony of marriage costs a lot, the process of saving money to get marriage make two people love deeply. At least I hope so.
Finally, Getting marriage makes it difficult for couples to break up. Because divorce is very troublesome, I think marriage have an effect to prevent people from doing something which connects to divorce. To be certain, keeping a relationship for a long time isn't necessarily good sometimes, however, in my opinion, it's much better than having a relationship with many partners one after another because sometimes parents try to get relationship at the expence of their children.
Therefore, marriage is good idea to maek it difficult to break up.
Actually, the recent debate in British and American newspapers is over the problems associated with having children:
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"Children do not bring happiness. In fact more often they seem to bring unhappiness. That is the conclusion of one academic study after the next — and there are so many that it makes one wonder if researchers kept trying, hoping for a different result. "
However, one researcher who has come to the conclusion that children don't bring happiness has "plans to ask his girlfriend’s father for his “blessing” any day now, he writes, and then the couple want to have children, “hopefully one girl and one boy.”
Look at:
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/5021035/Children-dont-make-you-happy-says-expert-who-doesnt-have-any.html
I think children bring plenty of happiness, *if* you have children for the right reasons, that is...
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